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Scam simulator · After a scam
After you’ve lost money to a scam, a message arrives from someone who says they can get it back. They know exactly how much you lost. Practice what to do, and see why the people who really can help never charge a fee.
Why it matters: Canadians reported losing $25.9 million to "recovery pitch" scams in 2025, the sixth most costly type of fraud that year. (Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre, February 2026)
A few months ago, you lost $38,400 to a fake investment website called Norvanta Trade. The people behind it were skilled, organized criminals, and you were far from the only person they fooled. You’d give a great deal to get that money back.
Below, each step shows what you'd see, the choices people make, and why each one is safe or risky. The summary at the end tells you what to look for and what to do.
You'll see each message or call as it would really look. Choose what you'd do, and you'll find out why. Nothing here is real: no messages are sent and nothing you choose leaves your device.
One morning, an email arrives. The subject line mentions the company that took your money.
Case IFRB-5521: Your Norvanta Trade funds ($38,400)
International Fund Recovery Bureau <[email protected]>
To: me
This sender is not in your contacts.
Dear Investor,
Our records show that on March 14 you transferred $38,400 to Norvanta Trade, a platform now under international investigation.
Your name appears on a government-affiliated list of fraud victims who are eligible for recovery through legal channels. Our investigators work alongside federal cybercrime agencies.
To open your recovery file, reply to this email or call your case officer on (202) 555-0184.
This matter is strictly confidential.
Open my recovery file
What do you do?
Who could know exactly how much you lost, and when?
Reply. They know the exact amount and the company’s name, so they must be real.
Risky choice (your choice)
The detail is what makes it feel real, but it’s the biggest warning sign. The people who know exactly what you lost are the criminals who took it, and anyone they’ve sold your details to. Replying tells them you’re interested.
Call the case officer’s number and ask a few questions first.
Risky choice (your choice)
That number goes straight to the scammers, and they’re trained to answer every question smoothly. Asking questions of the person who contacted you can’t show whether they’re genuine.
Don’t reply or call. Talk it over with my family, and ask my bank or the police about my case, using numbers I find myself.
Safe choice (your choice)
That’s the safe choice. Anyone can claim to work with the authorities, and no genuine agency will ask you to pay to get your money back. If you want to know where your case stands, your bank and the police can tell you, and it won’t cost anything.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
Recovery scammers target people who have already been scammed. The FTC says they “buy lists of people who’ve already been scammed”, and the FBI has warned about fake law firms that know the exact amounts, dates and company names from the first scam. Some tell victims they’re on “a government-affiliated list of scam victims”. The FBI says no law firm is an official partner of US government agencies.
Suppose you do reply, even just to ask how they got your details. A friendly case officer answers within the hour, with good news.
What do you do?
Can you check any of this yourself?
Feel hopeful, and wait for the agent’s call.
Risky choice (your choice)
Hope is exactly what they’re offering, and it’s hard to turn down after a loss. But “we’ve traced your money” is a standard line in recovery scams, and you have no way to check it. The call that follows is part of the same script.
Ask them to send everything in writing, on official letterhead.
Better, but not the safest (your choice)
It feels careful, but letterhead is easy to fake, and they’ll happily send it. Paperwork from the person who contacted you can’t prove who they are.
Stop. Call my bank and the police on numbers I find myself, and ask them about my case.
Safe choice (your choice)
Well done. If there’s any real progress in getting your money back, your bank or the police will know, and they won’t charge you anything. Checking with them takes the power away from the stranger.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
Scammers know that someone who has lost savings badly wants to believe it can be put right. “Tracing” a crypto payment sounds technical and convincing, and you can’t check it. Asking you to keep it confidential stops you talking to your bank or your family.
That afternoon, a video call comes in. A man in a suit sits at a desk with a flag and an official seal behind him. He holds a badge up to the camera.
Incoming video call
Caller ID: (202) 555-0184
An FBI agent is on video. What do you do?
Would the FBI really call you, working with a private company?
Believe him. I can see him, and his badge.
Risky choice (your choice)
Seeing someone on video used to feel like proof. Now criminals can use AI to appear on video as officials, and badges and seals are easy to copy. The FBI has warned about exactly this.
Ask for his badge number so I can check it later.
Better, but not the safest (your choice)
He’ll give you one without hesitating, and it will sound real. A number from the caller proves nothing. The only way to check is to contact the agency yourself, using details you find yourself.
End the call. I’ll go to the FBI’s complaint website, ic3.gov, by typing the address myself.
Safe choice (your choice)
Exactly right. The FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center says it will never contact you directly by phone, email or social media, and it will never ask for payment to recover lost funds. Type ic3.gov into your browser yourself, rather than searching for it.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
In July 2026, the FBI warned that criminals are pretending to be staff of its Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) and using AI-made “deepfake” videos of FBI officials to reach people who’ve already been scammed. In a separate warning, it said AI lets scammers appear as officials on video calls. The FBI says the IC3 will never contact you directly, and will never ask for payment to recover lost funds.
After the call, the recovery bureau sends another email.
Case IFRB-5521: Retainer required to release your funds
International Fund Recovery Bureau <[email protected]>
To: me
Following your verification with the federal agent, your recovery has been approved.
To begin the release, a one-time retainer and processing fee of $1,850 must be received within 48 hours.
Payment is accepted by wire transfer, cryptocurrency or prepaid gift cards.
Once the fee is received, your $38,400 will be returned to you in 5 to 7 business days.
View payment instructions
They want $1,850 to return $38,400. What do you do?
Does anyone who genuinely helps scam victims charge a fee first?
Pay it. It’s a small price to get $38,400 back.
Risky choice (your choice)
The numbers are the trap: a small fee against a big refund feels like a sensible trade. But there is no refund. The $1,850 goes to criminals, possibly the same ones as before, and it opens the door to more fees.
Offer to pay the fee once the money has arrived.
Better, but not the safest (your choice)
They’ll have a reason why the fee must come first: rules, the court, the bank. There’s no version of this where paying them gets your money back.
Refuse. Real help to recover scam losses never comes with an upfront fee.
Safe choice (your choice)
That’s right. The FBI says the IC3 “will never ask for payment to recover lost funds.” UK police say the same: “The police or government agencies will never ask for fees to recover money you have lost to fraud.” Your bank and the police don’t charge for their help.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
The FTC says recovery scammers ask for a “retainer fee”, “processing fee” or “administrative charge”, and that neither government agencies nor legitimate organizations will ever ask for money in exchange for help getting a refund. The FBI says fake law firms ask to be paid in cryptocurrency or prepaid gift cards.
Suppose the fee was paid. A few days later, you’re given a login to a secure “client portal”. Your money is right there on the screen.
Client Recovery Portal
Recovered balance: $38,400.00
Status: On hold pending bank verification
For anti-money-laundering reasons, a bank verification fee of $3,960 must be paid before funds can be released to your account. This fee cannot be deducted from the recovered balance.
Pay verification fee
Your money is on the screen. What do you do?
If the money were really there, why couldn’t the fee come out of it?
Pay the verification fee. The money is so close now.
Risky choice (your choice)
The balance is just a number typed onto a web page the scammers built. It isn’t in any bank. There will always be one more fee: a tax, a court charge, a certificate. Each payment adds to your loss.
Ask them to take the fee out of the recovered money.
Better, but not the safest (your choice)
It’s the obvious question, and they’ll have an answer ready: “for legal reasons” it can’t be deducted. That excuse is the giveaway. Real money could pay its own fees.
Stop paying. Call my bank and report it, including the fee I’ve already paid.
Safe choice (your choice)
That’s the right move. Stopping now protects what you have left. Tell your bank about every payment straight away; the sooner they know, the more they can try to do.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
The FBI has described scammers telling victims that “payment of bank fees is required to verify identity and ownership to withdraw funds.” Report Fraud, the UK’s police reporting service, warns that if you pay recovery fraudsters, “they’ll keep coming back to you with another cost that has to be paid.”
Weeks later, the portal stops loading and the email address no longer works. Then a new email arrives, from a different firm.
We help victims of the "International Fund Recovery Bureau"
Global Asset Retrieval Solicitors <[email protected]>
To: me
Dear Client,
We understand you may have lost funds to a company calling itself the International Fund Recovery Bureau. Our legal team specializes in recovering money from recovery fraud.
We work on a no-win, no-fee basis. A small registration fee of $450 applies.
Register my claim
Another firm offers to help. What do you do?
Who started this conversation: you or them?
Reply. Maybe this firm is genuine, and it’s only $450.
Risky choice (your choice)
This is a third attempt, and it’s common: once someone has paid, their details get passed around. Anyone who contacts you out of the blue offering to recover money for a fee is running a scam, even if they say they fight scammers.
Don’t reply. Go to my bank and the police, report both losses, and ask what free help there is.
Safe choice (your choice)
Well done. Real help comes from your bank, the police and the official reporting services, and it’s free. Report the first scam and the recovery scam as separate crimes. Being targeted again is not a sign you did anything wrong.
Red flags at this step
What's really going on
Real recovery happens through your own bank and the police, and it doesn’t cost anything. The Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre warns: “If you’ve been a victim of fraud in the past, there is a very good chance you will be targeted again.” The FTC says government agencies and legitimate organizations will never ask for money to help you get a refund.
The International Fund Recovery Bureau, the case officer and the federal agent were all invented. The people behind them either ran the first scam or bought your details from those who did. There was no traced wallet and no recovered balance, only new fees, each one presented as the last. Real help, from your bank and the police, never asks you to pay. If this has happened to you, please don’t carry it alone: being targeted twice is common, and it is not your fault.
Test your family
Send this simulator to a parent, grandparent or friend. They try it on their own phone or computer, and at the end they can send their score straight back to you, so you can see which steps caught them out. Then talk it over together.
Nothing is sent to us. Your first name and their score travel only inside the link you send, after the # sign, which web browsers never send to our website.
You were challenged
Finish the simulator above, then you can send your score back. They'll see which steps you got right, and which ones caught you out.
Only your first name and which answers you chose go in the link, after the # sign. Nothing is sent to us.
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Summary · keep this
Remember: Nobody who genuinely helps scam victims charges a fee to get money back. If someone contacts you offering to recover your money, don’t reply: go to your bank and the police yourself.
Don't be embarrassed. These scams are run by professionals, and acting fast gives you the best chance of stopping the damage.
Phone numbers and web addresses were checked on 28 September 2026. They can change; if one doesn't work, search for the organization's official website, and please let us know.
The people, numbers, companies and web addresses shown in this simulator are made up. The way the scam works is taken from real cases reported by police, regulators and consumer groups.
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